Matchmaking,step by step
A matchmaker's care with modern matching. Here's what happens from your first answer to your first conversation.
- 1
Build your profile
Tell us about your values, faith, lifestyle and what you want in a spouse, then add your photos.
- Multiple choice and short answer questions, plus photos
- Your answers are confidential: only our team sees them
- Edit your profile any time and changes flow into your next match
- 2
We do the matching
Our matching, trained by real matchmakers, weighs your preferences, values and deal breakers across the community.
- Inspired by traditional matchmaking
- Looks at religiosity, family values, lifestyle and long-term goals
- A small set of strongly aligned matches, never a feed of faces
- 3
Get your match
No swiping. When we find a strong match, you get 24 hours to say yes or no.
- One match a month, so the other person gives you their full attention
- If one of you declines, we present another match if we have one
- No match this month? We try again next month
- 4
Meet with intention
If you both say yes, we connect you so you can take it from there.
- You decide how and when to talk
- Tell us how it went so we can match you better
- If it doesn't work out, we're here for you next month
Built for marriage,not for scrolling
No swiping
You never scroll through a feed of faces. We bring you a small number of matches that fit.
Private by default
Your profile answers are confidential. Only our team sees them while we look for your match.
A serious community
Everyone is here for marriage. Anyone who receives multiple complaints is removed.
This is how inpairs works today in the US and Canada. We'll share any UK-specific details before signups open.
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