Tired of a million matches,no conversations? Try inpairs.
Our Matchmaker AI takes the pressure off by carefully selecting a match for you based on you and your preferences.
Discover your journey with us
Tell us about you
Fill out the matchmaking forms (multiple choice, short answer, photo upload, and a masjid form). We'll send a confirmation email once you're in the pairing pool.
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Everything here is absolutely confidential — only our team will see your responses at this point in the process.
Once you're finished you'll get an email with your responses. That's how we'll communicate with you going forward.
Take your time
Not much to do here. Make sure your profile is up to date, photos are looking nice, and you haven't said anything wild.
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We'll do the rest. Edit your profile any time — updates flow into your next match cycle automatically.
Get verified
To enhance your matchmaking experience, we have a tiered badge verification for users from official partner masajid.
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You can get verified automatically or by visiting your masjid in person.
Even if you're not verified, you'll still be part of the national masjid pool — verification just gives stronger signal in your matches.
Pairing
This is where the magic happens. Our Matchmaker AI (trained by real matchmakers) analyzes your preferences, values, goals, and deal breakers — because compatibility goes deeper than surface-level traits.
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Inspired by traditional matchmaking, our pairing system cross-references what matters most to you — lifestyle, level of religiosity, family values, long-term intentions, and more — across our community to find the right fit.
Example: Mohamed completes his profile and submits his preferences. Our Matchmaker AI evaluates his values and deal breakers, then identifies a small group of highly aligned potential matches.
No more swiping through countless faces. Our system serves up a select few strong potential matches.
Perfect match
If you were paired, congrats. You'll have 24 hours to approve or reject the pair. There are three waves — make sure you check every 24 hours.
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If we haven't found a good pair for you this month, don't worry — with more time and users we'll try again next month.
If both of you approve, we exchange phone numbers so you can take it from there. You only get one pair per month, so the other person is giving you their full attention.
If one party declines, we'll present a second pair if we have one for you. Same process for the third pair before rolling over to next month.
Get to know
We want this to work, so let us know how it goes. We wouldn't pair you if we didn't think it was a good fit.
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We hope the first person you meet works out, but we get this isn't a surefire process. If it doesn't, we're here for you next month.
Get verified for a better experience
To enhance your matchmaking experience, we offer a verification badge for users from official partner masajid. You can get verified automatically or by visiting your masjid in person — and even if you're not verified, you'll still be part of the masjid pool and matchmaking events.
Ready when you are
Five steps. One curated match a month. Zero swiping. Get started in under ten minutes.
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